These need to be watched out of game. Not all of us want to do PVP, but the skills apply to PVE and missions, so are useful for general gameplay.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ote391Olpgo

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W7m3AuXd6K0

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hivIJ5vwUTo

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W-wL8bGCWCQ

also download the damage control and damage controll2 video on this link its a long one but it will show you what pvp is all about http://www.eve-files.com/media/corp/damige/

have fun and keep safe.