These need to be watched out of game. Not all of us want to do PVP, but the skills apply to PVE and missions, so are useful for general gameplay.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ote391Olpgo
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W7m3AuXd6K0
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hivIJ5vwUTo
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W-wL8bGCWCQ
also download the damage control and damage controll2 video on this link its a long one but it will show you what pvp is all about http://www.eve-files.com/media/corp/damige/
have fun and keep safe.